In a recent interview with Fox News Digital, Ali C. Lopez, a transgender influencer who unexpectedly became an internet meme, shared her concerns about society’s increasing sensitivity and what she sees as a decline in masculinity. Lopez, who gained viral fame, describes her experience as overwhelming, filled with emotions ranging from excitement to anxiety.
Her journey to becoming a meme began after appearing on the podcast “Whatever”, which tackles topics like feminism, gender roles, and traditional values. During the episode, Lopez discussed the difficulties of modern dating and expressed her worries about the decline of masculinity in society. She shared her frustration about how many men seem unable to handle basic tasks like fixing a flat tire, which she values in a partner. Lopez challenges men to embrace their traditional roles, urging them to be more proactive in their responsibilities.
Lopez also believes that many men today expect a “princess treatment” in relationships. She encourages men to contribute equally, both emotionally and financially, to create a balanced dynamic in their partnerships.
Her rise to fame stemmed from a viral clip where she confidently declared herself a “fat f—ing ten”, leading to her becoming the subject of the “Gorlock the Destroyer” meme. While Lopez admits that the meme’s name sometimes bothers her, she has also considered embracing it. Despite the meme, Lopez remains focused on engaging in respectful conversations, especially when it comes to transgender issues.
Unlike some of her Gen Z peers, Lopez calls for more patience and understanding in discussions about gender identity. She advocates against labeling others too quickly and urges a more tolerant approach. She stresses the importance of respect and love, even when full understanding may not yet be there.
Lopez also encourages society to ease up on being overly sensitive, except when dealing with direct negativity. She highlights the need for understanding from older generations as they adjust to today’s more accepting culture, especially when it comes to transgender issues.
