Sexual conversations are evolving. The questions women ask about sex today are very different from those of a decade ago.
Back then, it was all about frequency and technique. Now, women want to understand their desires, explore new ideas, and question long-held assumptions.
Can You Have an Orgasm Without Being Touched?
Yes – it’s possible.
Orgasms are usually triggered by physical stimulation, but they can also happen through mental arousal. Some women report reaching climax purely through fantasy, dreams, or deep breathing techniques like Tantra.
Others experience orgasm during exercise or sleep. The brain plays a key role in sexual arousal, sometimes making physical touch unnecessary.
Do Women Fantasise About Cuckolding?
Cuckolding—watching or knowing your partner is intimate with someone else—is often associated with men, but research shows many women also fantasise about it.
A study by Dr. Justin Lehmiller found that 26% of straight women and 42% of non-heterosexual women have imagined watching their partner with someone else.
Even more—40% of straight women and 58% of non-heterosexual women—have fantasised about being with someone else while their partner watched.
Why is it Appealing?
For some, it’s about excitement and novelty. Being desired is one of the biggest turn-ons, and knowing multiple people find you attractive can boost confidence.
For men, theories suggest it may stem from thrill-seeking, breaking taboos, or taking control of fears around infidelity. However, turning fantasies into reality isn’t for everyone—most couples prefer to keep it in the realm of imagination.
Is It Normal to Never Feel Sexual Desire?
Sexuality varies. While most people experience desire, a small percentage—around 1-2%—feel little to none.
Asexuality is becoming more recognized, partly due to changing societal attitudes. Some people assume it’s linked to past experiences, but research suggests it’s more about biology and personal identity.
Sexuality isn’t one-size-fits-all, and as conversations grow, so does our understanding of what’s ‘normal’—or rather, what’s simply different.