Symbiosexuality is a newer term in the world of sexual identities. While some might see it as just another niche label, it has gained attention from those who feel it describes their experiences of attraction. Symbiosexuality refers to attraction based on the energy shared between people in a relationship, rather than physical or personal traits. The attraction is to the dynamic energy that flows between people, which is described as multifaceted and powerful.
The key difference between symbiosexuality and traditional forms of attraction is that symbiosexuals are drawn to the relationship itself rather than the individuals involved. According to Dr. Sally Johnston, a professor of Anthropology and Sociology, symbiosexuals focus on the synergy between partners. “They’re not attracted to the people themselves, but to the connection they share,” Dr. Johnston explains.
While symbiosexuality might seem similar to polyamory, it’s not limited to relationships with multiple partners. It can also occur in monogamous relationships, with the attraction being to the shared energy in the connection. For some, the attraction is to the bond itself, while for others, it’s the desire to be part of that connection.
Symbiosexuality challenges traditional ideas of attraction, which often focus on physical traits or emotional bonds. Instead, it emphasizes the connection between individuals as the core of desire. Symbiosexuals find the shared energy between partners more compelling than any single person’s characteristics.
The term is becoming more recognized, with many people from different backgrounds identifying as symbiosexual. Dr. Johnston’s research shows that the attraction cuts across various demographics and relationship types, including polyamorous, monogamous, and fluid relationships.
Some may question whether symbiosexuality is just a passing trend. However, it seems to be gaining legitimacy and acceptance, with more people coming forward to share their experiences. This growing visibility indicates that symbiosexuality will continue to be part of the conversation around sexual identity and relationships.
