There’s a subtle bedroom kink that many women love, but it often goes unnoticed by men. When it comes to enhancing intimacy, couples have many options, but this one is gaining attention online.
It’s trending on TikTok, showing how many women enjoy it, yet many men are unaware. One user commented, “Most romance book girls probably have this kink!”
Another person shared their story, saying, “I told him. He does it more now. Best day ever!” Others joined in, with one joking, “The vanilla community is discovering small kinks that the kinky community has known forever.” Another simply said, “I love it!”
When people think of kinks, they often imagine physical things—acts, toys, or scenarios. However, this one is different. Despite being simple, it can deeply affect emotional and physical connections in a relationship.
This kink focuses on a woman’s emotional needs, making her feel appreciated and valued by her partner. When done right, it boosts self-esteem, strengthens emotional bonds, and makes intimate moments more fulfilling.
The challenge is its subtlety. It’s not about using tools or following a script; it’s about creating emotional connections and expressing them with words, something that may be unfamiliar to many men.
This kink requires emotional vulnerability and verbal communication, areas often ignored or avoided. But focusing on words can significantly shape intimacy.
So, what is this trending kink? Known as a praise kink—or “affirmation play”—it involves using words of encouragement and admiration to build connection during intimate moments.
The praise kink taps into a woman’s desire to feel seen and valued by her partner. Unlike other kinks, this one is more about the emotional and psychological aspects of intimacy. When embraced, it can foster a stronger bond and ignite deeper passion.
Praises can be about actions, talents, or physical qualities, creating a unique form of appreciation. Dr. Nicole K. McNichols explained, “People with praise kinks are turned on by their partner complimenting them. Praise kink exists on a continuum because, who doesn’t love being told they’re beautiful or amazing?”
As this kink gains traction, more people are sharing their experiences. Columnist Jana Hocking wrote about it, saying, “It’s had 60 million views on TikTok, so clearly I’m not the only one enjoying it.” She described the appeal, highlighting popular phrases like, “You’re doing a great job,” and “You feel amazing.”
