A couple who welcomed a third person into their relationship after 20 years shared that some family members thought she had bad intentions.
Rachael Meir, 43, and her husband Aaron, also 43, had been married for nearly two decades when they met Kasey, 33, five years ago.
Despite some negativity, the trio had a commitment ceremony in November 2023. They now live together in Colorado Springs, Colorado, sharing daily life just like any couple.
Rachael and Aaron met Kasey through a dating app in 2019.
After chatting with several people, they decided to meet Kasey, a customer training manager from Kansas City, Missouri.
At first, their friends and family had doubts.
“There was a lot of shock and concern,” said Rachael, a psychologist from St. Petersburg, Florida.
“People assumed things like: I would leave Aaron for Kasey, Kasey had bad intentions, or Aaron was running off with a younger woman.”
They also get reactions from strangers.
“Some assume Aaron must be rich or has some other advantage.
“Others say our relationship is wrong or predict it won’t last.”
Over time, their close friends and family became more accepting.
“Through education and open talks, most now support us and see our bond as real and committed.”
Rachael explained that she and Aaron opened their relationship about 15 years ago.
“It started mainly because of my bisexuality,” she shared.
“We moved from the swinging lifestyle to polyamory and eventually found a strong connection with Kasey.”
Rachael says their life is similar to any other couple’s.
“We just have three people instead of two. We share a bed, go to the gym, work, walk the dog, cook, and travel together.”
“One advantage is that there’s always someone to spend time with. If one person isn’t in the mood for an activity, the other two can still enjoy it.”
The trio makes time for weekly dates and balances time together.
“Outside opinions don’t change our relationship,” Rachael added.
“Some family members may not fully understand, but they love us and want us to be happy.”
