Vanessa and Kobe Bryant were together for almost 20 years. She was his “Queen Mamba” to his “Black Mamba.” They met when Vanessa was in high school, and despite challenges, they remained strong, raising four daughters together.
Vanessa’s Early Life
Vanessa Urbieta Cornejo Laine was born on May 5, 1982, in Los Angeles. She was a quiet but cheerful child, known for being very close to her family. Her parents divorced when she was a baby, and her father moved to Baja, Mexico. She lived with her mother and sister, Sophie. After her mother remarried, she took her stepfather’s last name, Laine, and officially changed it in high school.
A Chance in the Spotlight
Vanessa had a natural presence, and in the summer of 1999, just before her senior year, she was approached to be in a music video. She appeared in a video for Snoop Dogg and Tha Eastsidaz’s song “G’d Up,” marking her first experience in entertainment.
Meeting Kobe
That same year, Vanessa met 19-year-old Kobe Bryant while working on another music video. In 2019, she shared a picture on Instagram, writing, “The day we met 20 years ago. K.o.b.e I love YOU.” The couple met on set but exchanged numbers the next day.
A Unique First Date
For their first official date, Kobe took Vanessa to Disneyland. Since he was already a well-known basketball star, security followed them to ensure their safety. As their relationship progressed, they had to be careful about the media, with paparazzi often waiting near Vanessa’s family home.
Public Attention
Their relationship became public quickly, and it caused a stir at Vanessa’s high school. Reporters tried interviewing her classmates, and friends recalled her showing them pictures of Kobe, but only allowing them to look, not touch.
Engagement at 18
Six months after meeting, Kobe proposed to Vanessa on her 18th birthday. The couple did not sign a prenuptial agreement. Vanessa’s stepfather later mentioned that Kobe said he loved her too much to have one.
A Small Wedding
The couple married in April 2001 at St. Edward the Confessor Catholic Church in Dana Point, California. Only 12 guests attended because Kobe’s family disapproved of the marriage. Reports suggested that they were concerned about his young age and other personal reasons. Over time, Kobe and his family repaired their relationship.
Building a Life Together
Despite early challenges, Vanessa and Kobe remained committed. She often accompanied him to games and events, and people noticed their strong bond. While she attended public outings, her focus was always on family.
First Pregnancy
In 2002, the couple shared exciting news—they were expecting their first child. Kobe’s career was thriving, and their financial future was secure with his major endorsements. They looked forward to becoming parents.
Welcoming Natalia
On January 19, 2003, Vanessa and Kobe welcomed their first daughter, Natalia Diamante Bryant. Her middle name was inspired by Vanessa’s love for diamonds. As she grew, Natalia developed a passion for volleyball and has since gained attention for her skills, with reports suggesting she may have a future with the USA Olympic team.
