Billie Beever, an adult content creator, shared on social media that while men admire her as a friend, they hesitate to enter a serious relationship with her.
She said that while finding friends or casual relationships is easy, building something meaningful seems to be a challenge.
In a TikTok video, Billie explained her struggles.
“I just found out why men say they can’t date me,” she said.
“They tell me they respect me and care for me, but they can’t commit because of my past.
“We all have a past. The only difference is, I filmed mine. Mine’s on camera. Does that make me not dateable? Seriously, yes or no?”
Billie pointed out that her work seems to block deeper connections.
She continued, “If my videos being available for you or your mates to see is the issue, then that’s your problem, not mine.”
Her video has gained over 22,000 views, with many people offering their thoughts.
Some viewers expressed support for Billie.
One user commented, “They’re intimidated. I’d find it attractive to know I see a side of you no one else does.”
Another added, “You’re looking at the wrong men. You’re definitely dateable and even marryable.”
Others encouraged her to move on from those who judge her. “They aren’t worth your energy. If they judge your past, you’re better off without them,” wrote one supporter.
“It’s not about the past; it’s about the future. Core values matter more than anything else,” said another.
However, some people felt differently.
“Unfortunately, there are consequences for the choices we make in life,” one person noted.
Another added, “No one wants to date someone everyone has seen naked.”
Some argued that personal values are valid: “They have the right to stick to their morals.”
Billie’s story continues to spark debate, with opinions sharply divided over whether her job should influence her chances at love.
