I was single for six years because I’m too hot to date and men are ‘scared off’ by my good looks

Shirley Rosemary Flynn, a 41-year-old woman from Birmingham, claims she has been single for six years because she is “too hot to date.” She believes her confidence and good looks intimidate men, making it difficult for her to find a partner.

Shirley, who has faced online criticism, says trolls have labeled her as “arrogant.” She shared that potential dates often cancel on her last minute, stating, “Men are scared off by how attractive I am.” She also mentioned struggling to make friends, as some women feel envious of her appearance.

Despite these challenges, Shirley has recently received marriage proposals. The OnlyFans model said, “I’ve been getting messages from men asking me for dates and even marriage offers from abroad.” She added that many people, especially older women, accuse her of being full of herself, which she finds amusing. Shirley responded to these comments by saying, “A confident woman wouldn’t react negatively; she’d laugh and move on.”

Shirley also revealed that her looks have caused issues in past relationships, with ex-boyfriends getting jealous when she received attention from other men. She remains hopeful about finding someone who can handle her confidence and beauty, saying, “I haven’t given up on finding ‘the one’.” She aims to inspire other women to feel confident, advising, “If women could look in the mirror and say ‘I’m confident, beautiful, and sexy,’ they wouldn’t feel the need to compare themselves.”

Shirley also addressed accusations about her curves being fake, insisting that she is natural and hasn’t had any surgery. “A lot of plus-size women think they won’t get attention, but I get more attention now than when I was slimmer,” she said.

Known as ‘Busty Malone’ on TikTok, Shirley has been banned from the platform multiple times since September 2020 due to her revealing content. She claims, “It’s discrimination because of my big boobs. My videos aren’t nude or pornographic. If I were smaller, they wouldn’t have complained.”

Shirley also receives messages accusing her of plastic surgery, but she insists her figure is all-natural. “My bust is real,” she stated confidently.

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